Hello again after a few days...
In my opinion in the British culture people are very good on ignoring in order to disconnect from someone.
I have lost how many times a friend or someone I have been dating simple chose to ignore me in order to stop whatever relationship we were having.
In my culture we are used to face the situation and talk things over. So if we don't manage to come to an agreement at least we know what happened!
Sadly here this doesn't happen and because of that I believe some friendships are lost only because of a lack of effort and some sort of misunderstanding.
I have blood running in my veins, I am alive and I live life with passion for everything I do and I say. I can't be that cold or reserved!!
To be cold and reserved is very good to face, for example, a day of work when you have personal problems and your colleagues have nothing to do with the matter. But when it comes to face the problem, in my opinion, you can't be reserved; otherwise you will never be able to solve things.
Speak up!! Let your emotions out!! It is actually good for you!!
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Hi, and thank you for starting this blog! I hope it will be successful, or I am sure of it since I think there are many people in Britain who feel the need to reflect upon their feelings towards the Brits.
ReplyDeleteThe art of ignorance is so true. I come across it everyday. You have on the one hand these lovely English people, who are easy to talk to, and often fun to talk to, but on the other hand... Yes, the art of ignorance. I have experienced it many times that you might spend a whole school trip talking to a parent (for me we were good friends by now) and the next day the person doesn't even say hello. So, go figure?